In a recent issue of “The Way,” a spirituality journal of the British Jesuits, a writer compared the 12 steps of Alcoholic Anonymous with the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius. Both recognize that without a Higher Power, God, in my life, my life can easily follow the wrong path and even spin out of control.
Alcohol is commonplace in the financial industry and, though the writer was not an addict, he recognized that he “used the bottle to self-medicate during times of stress, anger, or anxiety. … [Alcohol] was the mode by which business at times was done. … I had friends who were regulars at bars, and I often met for a social drink. But after one Sunday of having too much, I decided to put down the bottle.” (The Way, 61,2, April 2022, p. 65).
Going to his first AA meeting, he found the members gruff. More importantly, “These members shared their deepest and truest selves, their brokenness and their desire to be whole, more than I had ever experienced. I better understood God’s revelation to St. Paul: ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for power is made perfect in weakness’ (2 Cor 12:9).”
We all need God, even when our lives have not spun out of control. This is what the Hebrews learned at the foot of Mt. Sinai. Some weeks after Moses had gone up onto the mountain, the people waiting in the desert became restless. They wanted a god like the Egyptians and the Canaanites had, so they asked Aaron to fashion a golden calf for them to worship. They abandoned the one true God to create their own false god. Our world is not much different. People move away from our Triune God to follow gods of human making, whether those gods be alcohol or drugs, sex or material goods, power or pride, social media or internet games, peer groups or media or sports icons. We think that we are in control but, like alcohol, these things begin to control us.
But God is merciful, and by turning to Him, we can be restored to sanity and to real freedom. The God of the Gospel is the father, who is prodigal in his love for his foolish son (Luke 15:11-32). God loves all of His sons and daughters, and He wants to reveal what is true, good and loving to us. We are loved sinners who need to admit how these things often control us so that we might turn our lives over to God and be freed to grow in Jesus’ way. By admitting our sins and weaknesses, we can allow grace to work in us and bring us to new life.
This is what Paul shares with Timothy and with us. He is saying that “I am Paul, and I am a sinner.” “I was once a blasphemer and a persecutor and arrogant, but I have been mercifully treated because I acted out of ignorance in my unbelief. Indeed, the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ has been abundant, along with the faith and love that are in Christ Jesus” (I Timothy 1:13-14). “Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners. Of these, I am the foremost. But for that reason I was mercifully treated, so that in me, the foremost, Christ Jesus might display all His patience as an example for those who would come to believe in Him for everlasting life” (1 Timothy 15b-16). Like St. Paul, we are called to admit our sins and weaknesses so that God’s love might bring us forgiveness, healing, and strength. As the psalmist says, “A clean heart create for me, O God, and a steadfast spirit renew within me” (Psalm 51:4). This is the gift that our loving God has for each of us.
Let us pray: Loving God, we come to You not in power but each in our own weaknesses and struggles. We need You, for without You our lives easily go astray. In
Your mercy be our rock foundation. Should we stray, bring us back. In You alone will we find our peace. Amen.
Jesuit Father John Michalowski is the parochial vicar at St. Peter Parish in Charlotte.