Father Pat Hoare and Lisa Tavares, a member of the St. Matthew Church Faith Formation Team. Tavares is a die-hard Patriots fan. (Photo provided by Father Hoare)CHARLOTTE — Life-long Philadelphia Eagles fan Father Patrick Hoare may have asked the parishioners at St. Matthew Church in Charlotte to pray that his team would win Super Bowl LII, but he said he wasn’t optimistic that they would win.
“It was a great experience leading up to the game. I was excited for them to be in the Super Bowl,” said Philadelphia native Father Hoare. “I can’t say I was optimistic. I was hopeful though. Seeing the Eagles win was a dream come true. It’s never happened, ever.”
Prior to Feb. 4, the Eagles hadn’t won a Super Bowl and had only played in the game twice before. The Eagles defeated the New England Patriots 41-33.
“We’re long suffering fans. Tough and faithful. We support our team, loudly,” Father Hoare said. “That’s the environment I grew up in. We never win. We’re always pretty good. But we never quite get to the big game — or win the championship.”
The weeks leading up the Super Bowl were fun around the parish, Father Hoare said. Parishioners, students and staff took part in the fun — making football shaped cakes and buying Father Hoare a Super Bowl hat and shirt.
On Super Bowl Sunday, when Father Hoare called the children up for the Children’s Liturgy to dismiss them, he told them that in the Gospel Jesus goes to the people who are sick and in need and helps them.
He told the children that they, like Jesus, should help and pray for those in need.
“So today, we should all pray for the Eagles,” Father Hoare told the parishioners. “The congregation groaned and laughed, and some yelled back ‘no!’”
Father Hoare said he told them they had to listen to him since he was their pastor.
When Faith Formation team member Lisa Tavares, a Patriots fan, said it wasn’t fair to ask the children to pray for the Eagles, Father Hoare said “being a pastor sometimes has its advantages.”
Not saying having the nation’s largest parish praying for the team was the difference. “I'm not sure if God is an Eagles' fan, but the prayers surely didn't hurt,” Father Hoare said.
Facing maybe the greatest quarterback of all time with the Eagles back-up quarterback, Father Hoare didn’t expect his team to win.
“I was just hoping it wasn’t a bad game — that they wouldn’t get blown out,” Father Hoare said. And with more than two minutes left and the ball in Tom Brady’s hands, Father Hoare said he was sure the Patriots were going to come back to win the game like they’ve done time and time again.
“When they stripped the ball from Brady that was the first moment I was like ‘That’s what I was waiting for. The moment where Tom Brady wasn’t immortal.
“Then it was a race for the clock. When Brady threw the Hail Mary pass at the end, I looked and the clock was 0. I turned to my friend and said ‘There’s no more time. They won.’
“I was hysterical. I couldn’t believe there was no more time on the clock.”
The St. Matthew family is enjoying celebrating with Father Hoare, as well.
— Kimberly Bender, online reporter
During his historic March for Life address, President Trump lauds Room at the Inn’s life-giving hope to pregnant women
WASHINGTON, D.C. — A week ago, Marianne Donadio had no idea she’d be visiting the White House Rose Garden during the 45th Annual March for Life, much less be honored on national TV by the president himself.
“It’s something you don’t even dream about, getting publicity like that,” said Donadio, vice president of marketing and development of Room at the Inn, a homeless shelter for pregnant women in Greensboro.
She first learned of possible media attention the Sunday before the march. Donadio listened to a rather cryptic voice message from Jeanne Mancini, president of the National March for Life. Mancini was well acquainted with Room at the Inn after speaking at its annual banquet fundraiser in October. When Donadio called Mancini back, she asked Donadio if she’d be willing to share her story. Donadio agreed, then went to Mass at her church, St. Leo the Great in Winston-Salem, and returned home to a voice message from the White House. After conversations with the Secret Service, Donadio and two of her six children, Benedict and Maria, were all set to appear on stage with President Donald Trump and others Jan. 19.
After passing through security and arranging themselves on stage, they were surprised again when they were actually called to the podium by President Trump, the first president to ever address the national March for Life. There, he spoke of Room at the Inn in detail and shared Donadio’s personal story, an embodiment of the March’s theme, “Love Saves Lives.”
“Marianne was 17 when she found out she was pregnant. At first, she felt like she had no place to turn, but when she told her parents, they responded with total love, total affection, total support,” Trump said. “Marianne bravely chose life and soon gave birth to her son. She named him Benedict, which means blessing. Marianne was so grateful for her parents’ love and support that she felt called to serve those who were not as fortunate as her."
Marianne and Benedict Donadio travel on the metro on their way to the White House, where they were featured in President Donald Trump's historic address to the national March for Life. (Annie Ferguson, Catholic News Herald)Donadio volunteered at the home for many years while raising her family with her husband, Don. Albert Hodges, the organization’s president and founder, hired Donadio in 2011. Since opening the Mary Nussbaum Home in 2001, the organization has served more than 400 women.
Part of what makes Donadio so effective at raising funds for the organization is getting to know the women’s stories.
“I get a lot of joy from seeing the difference our donors make in the lives of our clients. I share our clients’ stories with them, both in thanksgiving for their support and to inspire them to be ambassadors for life,” she said. “The women we serve are truly remarkable and courageous in choosing life, given their circumstances, and their stories are each unique. Telling them helps people identify with the struggles the women go through and motivate them to do something to help. It creates a connection and helps people see that they are people, just like them, who are going through a hard time.”
Father Noah Carter, parochial vicar at St. Mark Church in Huntersville and Room at the Inn board member, was overjoyed to hear about Donadio being honored on the national stage.
“Marianne’s dedication and hard work at RATI is a wonderful witness to all who meet her of what a pro-life way of living looks like,” Father Carter said.
“More than social work or pregnancy care as an alternative to abortion, Room at the Inn is a beacon of hope. Abortion is the greatest evil that our country presently faces,” he continued. “So many proponents of abortion access like to taunt pro-lifers saying, ‘And who’s gonna take care of the baby? What’s going to happen to this woman’s quality of life?’ Room at the Inn is a shining example of how people who love life can come together and support women who choose life – even when everything and everyone seems to be against them.”
The staff and volunteers at RATI work tirelessly to bring that hope to the women they serve.
And in his speech televised live from the Rose Garden to tens of thousands of people participating in the national March for Life, the president recognized what a “true gift” that hope means.
Six of Room at the Inn's mothers and their children play a game at a baby shower last summer. (Photo provided by Room at the Inn)“It’s the gift of friendship, mentorship, the gift of encouragement, love and support. Those are beautiful words and those are beautiful gifts. And most importantly of all, it’s the gift of life itself,” Trump said. “That is why we march, that is why we pray, and that is why we declare that America’s future will be filled with goodness peace, joy, dignity and life for every child of God. Thank you to the March for Life.”
Room at the Inn’s founder, Albert Hodges, noted afterwards that it was an honor for Room at the Inn to be included in the president’s March for Life speech. “To see not only our work acknowledged in this forum as well as the personal story of our own Marianne Donadio, a prolife heroine in her own right, makes us proud,” he said.
After the excitement at the march on Friday, Donadio’s natural optimism was even more apparent.
“The tide is turning in favor of life. Some of the reasons for that are the march and Jeanne Mancini’s leadership and ability to connect with the younger generation. Of course, there’s the political aspect of having a pro-life president. That affects people’s morale, but beyond that it’s been 45 years since Roe v. Wade,” she explained. “Women who were initially ashamed of talking of their abortion have been encouraged and empowered to tell of their experiences and warn other women that it’s not a good thing for women, and I think that’s starting to sink in as well. I do get a sense that this generation just isn’t buying the lie, and the ultrasounds are the most glaringly obvious reason. You can see so clearly at a very early age their tiny fingers and their faces on a 3D ultrasound.”
Even during her 15 minutes of fame (including an interview with EWTN), Donadio is serving others by driving the RATI group to the event, navigating the metro and even giving first-time pilgrims a tour of the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception. On the way home to Greensboro, she pulled over to do interviews on a couple occasions, which prompted her blessing – the son who inspired her life’s work – to say (with love), “Hey, Mom, quit being famous and get back to the car! I’m ready to go home.”
— Annie Ferguson, correspondent
Pictured at top: Pro-life advocates watch U.S. President Donald Trump during a live broadcast to the annual March for Life rally in Washington Jan. 19. (CNS photo/Tyler Orsburn)