CHARLOTTE — Hundreds of drivers along Park Road are reminded just how valuable life is as they zoom past the "Cemetery of Innocents" in front of St. Vincent de Paul Church.
Several white crosses that line the grass near signs that say "In memory of the unborn killed by abortion" and "Take my hand, not my life," were broken between Jan. 25 and 26, according to an incident reported to Charlotte Mecklenburg Police.
"Cemetery of Innocents" is a pro-life exhibit in observance of the more than 4,000 unborn babies killed daily through abortion in the U.S. The parish's display is set up annually to coincide with the January 1973 anniversary of the U.S. Supreme Court's Roe v. Wade decision that legalized the killing of unborn children.
St. Vincent de Paul's Respect Life Coordinator Diane Hoefling said this is the fifth time the "Cemetery of Innocents" has been vandalized in the 20 years the parish has been setting up the pro-life display.
In 2012, two banners which carried pro-life messages were torn. Other times, crosses have been removed, and signs and banners have been slashed or stolen.
Damage to the broken wooden crosses was estimated at $200, the report states. It is not known who committed the vandalism, but police are investigating.
The goal of the display is to remind passers-by of the tragic toll that abortion has taken on our nation and the city of Charlotte, as well as to educate and inspire others to defend human life and to help pregnant women in crisis. The display has generated calls from abortion-minded woman seeking help, some regretting a past abortion and other churches interested in doing their own pro-life displays, Hoefling said.
— Catholic News Herald
CHARLOTTE — The hope of a better life in America has attracted immigrants to our shores for generations. From the Pilgrims in 1620 to today, the pursuit of the "American dream" has meant religious freedom, refuge from violence or injustice, the ability to work and live freely, and the chance to give one's children a better life.
Today, refugees fleeing persecution and hardship include the Lap family, who arrived in Charlotte last month after suffering years of persecution in their homeland of Myanmar.
Ram Lap, 33, and his 28-year-old wife Di Me escaped from Myanmar in 2009. With no other living relatives to leave behind, they fled a military-run forced labor camp and made their way to Malaysia. There, they applied for sanctuary in the United States and meanwhile earned United Nations work permits. Ram worked in a Chinese restaurant and Di Me worked as a waitress. The American government recently approved their resettlement request and in June, the Laps landed at Charlotte-Douglas International Airport.
There to welcome the Laps with open arms were staff from Catholic Charities Diocese of Charlotte's Refugee Resettlement office. With help from the staff, the Laps moved into a modestly furnished two-bedroom apartment in Charlotte, began taking English classes, and – importantly – received help in applying for and getting a job to help them settle into their new life here.
"When we got to the airport ... we felt freedom," Di Me recalls. "We are happy to be in the U.S.!"
The two-bedroom apartment feels uncomfortably luxurious, she adds, as they are not used to such spacious living quarters.
Refugee families receive a monthly stipend, $181-$349, depending on the number of people, but only for a limited time. Within three to four months, they are expected to be able to live on their own and have their own incomes.
Beyond just the basic necessities like a place to live, Catholic Charities' Refugee Resettlement Office provides critical job training and counseling services to these refugees. Last fiscal year, they helped 258 refugees find jobs and start down the path to independence.
"The employment staff assists refugees obtain employment and become self-sufficient," says Leon Shoats, employment specialist for Catholic Charities Diocese of Charlotte. "Upon arrival, refugees receive an orientation to the local work environment. Included in the orientation is an assessment of education, training and work experience. An employability plan is developed for each new arrival. Additionally, they receive an explanation of the hiring process and instruction in job seeking and keeping skills."
Catholic Charities staff also provides ongoing job counseling and helps the refugees in their job search. They contact potential employers and help the refugees navigate the application and interview process.
"After they are hired, post-employment counseling and ongoing support services are provided to maximize their chances for success and integration into community life," Shoats says. Refugees can get help for up to five years after arriving in the U.S., if needed.
Ram and Di Me went through the employment orientation a couple of weeks ago and are waiting for job opportunities to open up for them.
"It was a good orientation," Di Me says, speaking in Burmese through Catholic Charities interpreter Naomi Leng. "We are still scared because of the language barrier."
Leng finds great satisfaction in taking the Lap family and other refugees to their appointments and helping them navigate their new lives in Charlotte. "I come from Myanmar. I have been here four years. It is very hard to learn English," Leng says. "This is kind of my dream job. I really love to do this job."
Susan Jassan, acting Refugee Resettlement director, sees the dedication of the Catholic Charities staff firsthand.
"I know our employment teams work tirelessly to find appropriate placements for incoming refugees," Jassan says. "Our team is very selective in choosing employers for our clients, trying to create a match that will benefit the client and suit the needs of the employer."
When asked what they hope for the future, Ram and Di Me are in agreement.
"We hope for our child to go to school, to get an education," Di Me says. "We hope to buy a car soon, to get jobs, build good credit and buy a house in two to three years."
Thanks to Catholic Charities, the American dream is now within reach for this immigrant family.
— SueAnn Howell, Senior reporter
Refugee employment
Catholic Charities Employment Staff works with Charlotte-area employers to provide workers from a diverse labor pool of skilled and unskilled applicants who are eager to work. Refugees are employed in commercial bakeries, food processing, woodworking, hospitality, manufacturing, retail, recycling, and warehouse distribution work.
All refugee assessment, screening, referral and placement services are free. Also, the employment staff assists with translation and interpretation services, transportation, new employee orientation and support services after the refugee is hired.
To learn more, contact Catholic Charities Employment Staff at
704-370-3285 or 704