CHARLOTTE — Instruments of peace. That is what Father Frank O’Rourke, pastor of St. Gabriel Church, says his parishioners are striving to be by creating the “Caring for Charlotte” community initiative.
The parish-wide effort – inspired by Pope Francis’s call for the Church to “go to the margins” – aims to help people escape the cycle of poverty by focusing on affordable housing, early literacy and education, and social capital initiatives. Members of the fourth-largest parish in the Diocese of Charlotte are involved in eight outreach efforts to tackle these three critical needs in Charlotte.
“We have come this far by faith,” Father O’Rourke said. “We are striving to be ‘instruments of peace’ within our community through our Caring for Charlotte initiative that addresses our neighbors in need.”
“Caring for Charlotte” is a way the parish can deepen its decades-long commitment to serving the marginalized, noted Karen Brown, parish ministry leadership and volunteer coordinator.
“We have many parishioners who have been involved in our outreach to the poor, hungry and homeless for decades,” Brown said, but this new systematic effort builds on partnerships that align with recommendations by the Charlotte Mecklenburg Opportunity Taskforce to improve economic mobility and opportunity for Charlotte’s poor.
“These recommendations follow more than a year of our Pope Francis Initiative Ministry, exploring opportunities, meeting with local experts (20 spoke to us on affordable housing), and forming new partnerships and outreach ministries,” she said.
Pictured: St. Gabriel Church volunteers participate in a recent Habitat for Humanity home build. The parish has donated $75,000 to Habitat for Humanity to fund construction of a Habitat home this fall. (Photos provided by St. Gabriel Church)
CHARLOTTE FAMILY HOUSING PARTNERSHIP
Among the new initiatives is a partnership with Charlotte Family Housing. The parish has donated $175,000 to the non-profit organization to sponsor four families.
Charlotte Family Housing is a shelter-to-housing program for homeless families that empowers them to achieve long-term self-sufficiency through shelter, housing, supportive services and advocacy.
Homeless client families receive temporary shelter but also a connection to permanent housing, along with two years of partnering with a social worker to address barriers they may have to achieving stable housing.
“St. Gabriel will also recruit four HOPE teams of volunteers to mentor these families,” said Ana Lothspeich, St. Gabriel’s pastoral care director. The teams, each consisting of three to six people, will get training from CFH partnership and then provide encouragement, mentoring, friendship and support to a particular family for two years.
Lothspeich noted that the donation will also pay the salary of an added social worker to serve CFH families for two years.
“St. Gabriel is excited to provide CFH funding to pay for a social worker and to assist four additional families – families that CFH otherwise would not be able to assist,” said parish volunteer Paul Baulmann.
He reiterated that St. Gabriel’s partnership with CFH will provide additional working poor homeless families the housing stability and opportunities necessary to break the cycle of poverty.
HABITAT FOR HUMANITY
Father Frank O’Rourke, pastor of St. Gabriel, attended a “Caring for Charlotte” event at the parish Oct. 2.Over the past 30 years, St. Gabriel Church has funded the building of three Habitat for Humanity homes and helped with building more than 100 other Habitat homes. Now, the parish is taking things a step further.
This fall, the parish has committed to a “Master Builder Partnership” – donating $75,000 to Habitat for Humanity to build a fourth home for a qualified family. The build is set to take place this fall over the course of 13 weeks.
“For the construction of the St. Gabriel Habitat Home, we anticipate engaging approximately 200 volunteers (15-25 per work day) for both construction and other volunteer opportunities, such as serving snacks, lunch, and mentoring the partner family,” Lothspeich said.
Parishioner Danny Kelly, co-owner of Kelly McArdle Construction, lends his expertise on the building projects.
“I enjoy everything about building houses and am lucky that I can blend my hobby, career and philanthropy all into a single activity that I am passionate about: neighbors helping neighbors and building communities,” Kelly said. “I like helping people that help themselves and take the Habitat motto to heart: ‘A hand up, not a hand out.’”
COCHRANE ACADEMY OUTREACH
St. Gabriel Parish has also begun a new partnership with Cochrane Collegiate Academy, a Title I school serving many low-income families with students in grades 6-12. The multifaceted partnership aims to strengthen the “social capital” – a network of valuable relationships and mentors – for low-income students.
Parish volunteers will provide support for teachers and staff through appreciation events, serve as career day speakers, collect classroom supplies and mentor individual students.
“We are so happy to be involved with Cochrane Academy,” said volunteer Judy Fahl. “We chose them because they had literally no volunteer partnerships for the school and their needs were great. We have just begun the partnership and are building it as we learn about their needs and our ability to support the school.”
They’ve already been busy, providing a luncheon for the school’s 80 teachers and staff, goodie bags for Valentine’s Day, and school supplies for students returning to school this fall.
Principal Rachel Goldberg noted that for years he has been waiting for the right “partnership fit” to come along for Cochrane. “A fit that is not just about giving us money or volunteers but is about a commitment to one another. From the moment the members of St. Gabriel’s walked in, we knew working together was meant to be,” she said.
Twenty-four people have signed up to volunteer in the various programs with Cochrane Academy. The number of students to be mentored will vary, as St. Gabriel volunteers will be working through Communities in Schools to be part of their efforts at the school.
Volunteer Barbara Carroll noted that their focus on students is four-fold. “One, just to be there helping hopefully lets them know they aren’t forgotten. Secondly, we have had about a dozen parishioners take Success Coach training with CIS and are prepared to mentor a middle schooler. We are offering support and leadership to school clubs, especially the art and garden clubs. Finally, we are working with CIS and high school students to develop a social capital program that the students believe will help them.”
CARING FOR CHARLOTTE
St. Gabriel Church volunteers brightened Valentine’s Day for the Cochrane Academy staff with surprise goodie bags.(Photo provided by St. Gabriel Church)On Oct. 2 speakers from the “Caring for Charlotte” partner agencies – Habitat for Humanity, Charlotte Family Housing, Communities in Schools and Cochrane Academy – spoke at a special event at St. Gabriel Church. More than 70 people attended the event.
“It was a very successful evening with insightful and compelling information,” Lothspeich said. “St. Gabriel’s approach to responding to this crisis was applauded by all these organizations who expressed their admiration for the comprehensive and thoughtful process taken to create a response that addresses all aspects (education, housing, mentoring, family support, literacy, etc.) needed to provide sustainable help to our community.”
“We are excited with the energy and positive feedback from our St. Gabriel community for ‘Caring for Charlotte’,” said Brown, who is leading the new parish initiative.
Brown emphasized that the initiatives which make up “Caring for Charlotte” are not new to St. Gabriel Parish. Existing outreach ministries like Room In the Inn, Homemakers of Mercy, Share Sunday and Men’s Homeless Shelter also help care for their neighbors in crisis.
“However, ‘Caring for Charlotte’ goes beyond our existing ministries to intentionally and deliberately address the needs identified” in the city’s task force report, Brown explained.
Lothspeich added, “By using an ‘opportunity lens,’ as recommended by the task force report for houses of faith, our parish set out to develop a response that would reflect our previous commitment to serving the needs of our community and expand our scope.”
— SueAnn Howell, Senior reporter
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Wedding anniversary Mass honors married couples for their Christian witness
CHARLOTTE — Married couples celebrating special anniversaries in 2018 were honored by Bishop Peter Jugis during the Diocese of Charlotte’s wedding anniversary Mass, held this year at St. John Neumann Church Nov. 4.
The annual Mass recognizes couples who have witnessed to the sanctity of the sacrament of marriage for 25 years or more. Sponsored by Catholic Charities Diocese of Charlotte, the event includes a reception with the bishop after Mass.
“We are honoring you anniversary couples for the witness of your love for each other and especially and including your love of the Lord,” Bishop Jugis said at the beginning of his homily.
He reflected on the readings selected for the anniversary Mass (Genesis 3:18-24, 1 Corinthians 12:31-13:8a, and the Gospel of John 15:12-16), remarking that these readings are often selected for a wedding Mass.
“Marriage is a sacrament instituted by Christ to give grace” to couples and to provide a solid foundation for family life and the building up of the domestic Church, Bishop Jugis said.
Including Jesus Christ in one’s marriage is crucial for success, he continued. By inviting Christ into their marriage through the celebration of the sacrament of holy matrimony, he said, “you wanted to build your marriage on the solid foundation of Jesus so He would always be there to help you.”
He said he had no doubt that over the years they have relied often on Christ.
“It is incumbent upon you to continue to turn to Him because Jesus sets the standard on what marriage should be,” he said. “Jesus sets the standard of what it means to give your life to another. Without counting the cost, (He) gave His life always for the other – for us.”
In fact, Jesus sets the standard for self-sacrifice in whatever vocation in life the Lord calls us to – priesthood, consecrated life, single or married life, the bishop added.
“He sets the standard on how to love another because He is the supreme example of love. There is no greater. That is the love that inspires all Christian marriage.”
In attendance at the wedding anniversary Mass were Immaculate Heart of Mary parishioners Tom and Donna Yaudes, who were married more than 50 years ago in Madison, Wis. The couple raised three sons and now have seven grandchildren.
“We both went through Catholic schools, so that gave us a very good foundation,” Tom Yaudes said. “All through our lives together we have had ups and downs, some tragedies in our family and some real joys. We have always turned to God.”
Mike and Karen Lugo of Immaculate Conception Church in Forest City have been married 25 years and have seven children ranging from 8 to 20 years old.
“Karen prayed me back into the Church,” Mike Lugo said. “Through those graces, it has drawn me closer to Him and made me more eager to learn more about the faith and the Church, so we’ve continued to grow as a couple and as a family.”
The Lugos pray the rosary as a family each day and advise other couples to remain active in their faith.
“Go to Mass, get in front of the Blessed Sacrament and pray in the Presence of the Holy Eucharist,” Mike Lugo said.
“And try to go to Mass more than once a week on Sundays,” Karen Lugo added.
Deacon James Witulski and his wife Mary, who belong to St. Thomas Aquinas Church in Charlotte, were also honored at the wedding anniversary Mass Nov. 4. Married for 25 years, they raised two grown children and now have five grandchildren.
Patience and a sense of humor are important in marriage, they agreed.
“We always forgive each other and we forgive quickly,” Mary Witulski also noted. Deacon Witulski’s ministry in the Church has also brought them closer together and closer to God, she said.
“Her faith strengthened my faith,” Deacon Witulski added. “When I proposed to her I wrote her a poem that stated, ‘I want to walk hand in hand.’”
In the closing remarks of his homily, Bishop Jugis told the couples that he joined with them in thanking God for all of the blessings bestowed on them throughout their married lives.
He prayed, “May you live in peace with all people and may all people bless you.”
— SueAnn Howell, senior reporter
EDEN — A street named in honor of a priest later accused of child sexual abuse has been renamed.
Kuder Street runs alongside St. Joseph of the Hills Church, and was named decades ago for the parish’s first pastor – Father William J. Kuder – who presided over the construction of the church in 1938. The church was dedicated with much fanfare in 1939, and Father Kuder was lauded for his leadership. He served as pastor until 1940, then went on to serve as pastor of St. Joan of Arc Church in Candler until his death in 1960.
In 1995, a former member of the Candler parish came forward to accuse the late priest of raping him when he served as an altar boy in the early 1950s, starting when he was 9 years old and continuing until he was 13. The abuse survivor said he knew of at least 10 other boys in his parish school who had been similarly molested, including his two brothers.
Responding soon after he had spoken to the victims and their families, then Bishop William Curlin made a public apology at the Candler parish, telling parishioners, “Although he has been dead for 35 years, his memory lives on. While many revered him as a devoted pastor, he was sexually abusing some of the young children in this parish community.”
In 2007, the Diocese of Raleigh – responsible for Father Kuder because the Diocese of Charlotte was not established until 1972 – paid a financial settlement to the man and his brothers, and agreed to unearth Father Kuder’s remains (which had been buried near their parents in Asheville) and move them to another cemetery.
Last fall City of Eden officials received a letter from one of Kuder’s victims asking them to consider changing the street’s name, given the abuse revelations.
City Planning Director Kelly Stultz, who said she had never heard of the allegations against Father Kuder, conferred with parishioners, who were also surprised to learn the information.
After a public hearing at their Nov. 20 meeting, City Council members agreed 4-2 to proceed with renaming the street.
Parishioners recommended renaming it Mansfield Street to honor Joseph Mansfield, one of the church’s founding members.
A textile executive in Eden, Mansfield and his family traveled for years to Greensboro or Danville, Va., for Mass until he rallied local Catholics to form their own faith community. The Raleigh diocese established a parish in Eden, and Mansfield helped support the construction of the church on Boone Road.
Diocese of Charlotte spokesman David Hains said the diocese has no objection to renaming the street.
— Patricia L. Guilfoyle, editor
Seeking guidance from the Holy Spirit
CHARLOTTE — Dozens of Catholic members of the legal profession gathered at St. Peter Church for 15th annual Red Mass Oct. 25. Many are members of the St. Thomas More Society, which emphasizes living a life faithful to Jesus Christ and His Church, seeking to promote justice in society.
The Red Mass is celebrated throughout the United States traditionally in conjunction with the opening session of the U.S. Supreme Court, giving members of the legal community the opportunity to reflect on the God-given responsibilities of their profession.
The Mass in Charlotte, a votive Mass of the Holy Spirit, was celebrated by Benedictine Abbot Placid Solari of Belmont Abbey.
In his homily, Abbot Placid encouraged members of the St. Thomas More Society and others present to pray to the Holy Spirit for guidance in “the difficult and very important work” they do. He urged them to seek charity, justice, truth and wisdom, and to conform their lives, choices and actions to the will of God.
“This association of Catholic professionals is so important for building up the Church in Charlotte and to giving witness – precisely through their professional competence and expertise – to the truth and (Catholic) faith,” he said.
Four members of the St. Thomas More Society assisted at Mass: one as cantor, two brought up the gifts during the offertory and one as an extraordinary minister of Holy Communion.
After Mass, members explained why they attended the celebration.
“We think it’s important for very busy lawyers to take time out of their day and pray and ask for the Holy Spirit to help us seek justice in the justice system, so at the beginning of the Supreme Court term that is what we try to do every year,” said U.S. District Judge Robert Conrad, who has been on the bench for 15 years.
“The Red Mass is very important to me because it allows me to get together with fellow lawyers and those in the legal profession through prayer and to bring that back within our legal community and beyond and to spread the Word of the Gospel to the greater community,” said attorney Matt Orso.
Echoing his sentiments, attorney Michael Hoefling noted, “It’s important as a community of lawyers to ask for the inspiration of the Holy Spirit to guide our practice.”
— SueAnn Howell, senior reporter
