Published: 15 March 2018

Last Updated: 15 March 2018

‘Without work we cannot fully flourish’

BELMONT — Work can and should be an integral part of one’s faith life. That was the message from Andreas Widmer, an author and entrepreneur who delivered the annual Cuthbert Allen Lecture Feb. 26 at Belmont Abbey College.

Widmer directs the Ciocca Center for Principled Entrepreneurship at The Catholic University of America’s Busch School of Business and Economics. He is also the co-founder of The SEVEN Fund, Social Equity Venture Fund, an organization dedicated to ending poverty.

Widmer served with the Swiss Guard, protecting St. John Paul II from 1986 to 1988. The late pope guided Widmer towards a closer relationship with Jesus Christ and a different perspective on work. Widmer wrote about his Vatican service and how it informed his later career choices in “The Pope & The CEO: Pope Saint John Paul II’s Lessons to a Young Swiss Guard.”

Widmer began his lecture, “Business as a Vocation,” by reminiscing about his experience as a Swiss Guard for St. John Paul II:

“One thing about St. John Paul was that he never told me what to do. Instead, he would always say, ‘I will pray for you.’ He was always advocating for me. I started watching him closely, thinking this is the guy that prays for me.
“In everything he did, he was fully present. He was the fullest human being I have ever met. At the same time, I would watch him spend hours in front of the altar praying.

“Whatever he had, I wanted. He became my idol – and he noticed. ‘You want a relationship with Jesus Christ. You want to find your full humanity. That is the reason you admire me,’ he said to me. Then, he taught how to pray the rosary.”
The young Widmer started attending Mass and praying the way Pope John Paul II showed him. And before long, Widmer recalled, “I started to develop faith. They spoke of the Trinity and creating the universe. I was constantly thinking about the Trinity. The Trinity was not up there singing to each other but truly having a nice, very real conversation. Someone in our image and likeness created a human being out of matter. Created all of creation – all totally beautiful. Who made this? God. Why? For me.”

The Trinity and creation relate to business and invention, Widmer continued.

“God Creates, God is a doer. God gets stuff done. God gives us ideas and through creation, we can imitate God. We can do the same thing on the business side. When you think about product, you are making something out of nothing, using your own will. You are the creator. What happens when you copy God? You become holy.”
“Work is a path to holiness,” he continued. “When you create, you become holy. Cows and monkeys can’t make things out of logic. Work is spiritual, and comes from a higher level. When we work, it becomes part of our path to heaven.”

“Without work we cannot fully flourish,” he emphasized. “When people do not work, they waste away.”

“Everything God creates is in abundance,” he also said. “Your company can do this by being profitable. Work should be satisfying and rewarding.”

Then Widmer offered “three successful business tips”: “Be creative. Be supportive by creating goods and services that benefit and serve society. Be abundant.”
Widmer opened the floor to questions and reminded the audience, “There are ideas and there are business ideas. Do not feel afraid to know the difference. Are you producing goods that are truly good? Does your service truly serve? Do you create more freedom?”

He then urged the audience to “find your ‘Super Pin’” – that one great idea which stands out from the rest.

Widmer ended the night by crediting the inspirational experiences he had serving St. John Paul II as his roadmap through the business world.

“Anything you do has eternal consequences. With every act you can glorify God. How did John Paul II do it? He would always pray to God and say that he was going to meet that person on their level. He prayed that God would let him see this person the way God saw this person.

“God loves every single one of us so much. He thinks we are so special. That is why we are here.”

— Lisa Geraci, correspondent

To order a copy of “The Pope & The CEO: Pope Saint John Paul II’s Lessons to a Young Swiss Guard”: https://stpaulcenter.com/product/the-pope-the-ceo/

Published: 15 March 2018

Last Updated: 13 May 2022

‘I can’t imagine where I would be or how I would be as a mother if MiraVia did not exist’

Pictured: Belmont Abbey College graduate Emily Smith and her son Avery were residents at MiraVia for the past two years. The 10,000-square-foot college maternity residence opened in 2012 and has served 13 women and their children, with seven women and five children currently living there. For more information on MiraVia, go to www.mira-via.org. (Photos provided by Debbie Capen)BELMONT — Motherhood can be a challenging vocation – even more so when the pregnancy is unplanned and the mom-to-be is a young college student.

Enter MiraVia, a non-profit Catholic maternity home for college students who choose life for their unborn child. MiraVia, located on the Belmont Abbey College campus since 2013, gives hope to mothers of all faith backgrounds, and the help they need to achieve their academic and parenting goals. It now houses eight mothers and four children.

“MiraVia is unique in its approach to serving pregnant women who lack support,” says Debbie Capen, MiraVia’s executive director. “By eliminating many of the barriers to higher education and a better quality of life, we are empowering pregnant women to create bright, healthy futures for themselves and their children.”

MiraVia recently said goodbye to its 13th resident and fourth Belmont Abbey College graduate – Emily Smith, a student athlete who lived there for two years after giving birth to her son Avery.

Emily found MiraVia after learning she was pregnant in 2015. The baby’s father, also a Belmont Abbey College student, was from San Diego at the time, and her parents lived five hours away in New Bern, NC. If she was going to keep the baby and raise it herself while she kept up her college studies, she needed help.

“I was raised in a Catholic, pro-life family so when I found out I was pregnant, the thought of having an abortion never once occurred to me. I also knew growing up that I wanted to have children of my own, so right away I also ruled out adoption as well,” Emily says. “When I contacted Anthony (the baby’s father) he was very supportive and never pushed me towards doing anything that I did not want to do. Right away, we both decided that we wanted this family and started making plans from that moment.”

“At first I did not want to live at MiraVia because I assumed that it was going to be completely different from what I discovered it to be,” she says. “Anthony and I were planning to live together without taking MiraVia into consideration.”

Emily’s mother Edie remembers seeing MiraVia from a distance when they toured the Belmont Abbey College campus in 2013.

“I inquired about the building in the distance by the cemetery,” she recalls. “The student guide mentioned that there was a home for single and unwed mothers on campus. I recalled thinking to myself at that moment what a wonderful ministry that the college had.”

When she learned of Emily’s pregnancy, her mom says, “We didn’t know what we were going to do. For my husband and me, it was a matter of would our daughter come home to have the baby and go to a local college, or postpone college indefinitely?” As they weighed whether to raise the baby themselves so that Emily could finish her junior and senior years at Belmont Abbey College, Edie remembered the campus maternity home.

It was the answer to their prayers.

“We prayed a lot about our decision and asked God to lead us in all of our choices,” Edie says. “We wanted to be sure that there was going to be help for our daughter as a new mom and everything else that goes along with having a baby. The distance was going to prohibit me from helping her as much as I wanted to.”

At her mother’s urging, Emily met with Capen, who was very supportive.

“We eventually decided that this would be the very best option for both of us since we were still in school,” Emily says. “Anthony would still be in his apartment on campus and I would be living at MiraVia just next door. I would still be able to attend classes, go to my lacrosse practices, and see Anthony whenever I wanted without the stresses of finances.”

Emily gave birth to her son Avery in January 2016, and in December 2017 she received a bachelor’s degree in biology.

“When I think back to my past two years and watching Avery grow up in this environment, I can’t imagine where I would be or how I would be as a mother if MiraVia did not exist,” she says. “Honestly, I am excited for the day when I can tell Avery how he spent the first two years of his life and who he spent it with.”

“There are so many things that I love about MiraVia that it is so hard to narrow it down,” she says.

“Right away MiraVia became my home, and everyone who is a part of this program, staff and residents became my family. I love that I was able to start a family in such a nurturing environment. I love how I can just talk to any of the staff members and volunteers like I talk to my mom or dad. One of the things that I cherish the most is the relationships that I have made with the other residents and that I am able to help them through their journey of motherhood as well.”

She adds, “It has also been amazing that I was able to graduate on time while balancing school, sports, and becoming a mother. I definitely would not have accomplished that without MiraVia and the support that they offer, especially when it came to child care and our basic needs.”

She encourages other young woman who may find themselves in a similar situation to “trust in God’s plan for them and to be patient because they will get to where they want to be in life. Two years ago I did not think I would be in this situation that I am today. I have a healthy child and a bachelor’s degree.”

Edie and her family have also been grateful for the love and support Emily received.

“All we can say is, God is good! As parents to a resident there, we were very happy with everything that MiraVia and the staff has done for our daughter. She received financial education classes and child care support, which allowed her to continue her studies and graduate with a bachelor’s degree in biology. She also received counseling and support to help her with being a young mother and being a college student.”

After graduating from both Belmont Abbey College and MiraVia, Emily now moves on to the next phase of her life. She wants to pursue a master’s degree, and she and Anthony plan to marry, find a home of their own and, she says, “have more children!”
— SueAnn Howell, senior reporter

Baby Avery

Emily and Avery with Abbot Placid

Father Matthew Kauth and Avery

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Emily with her parents.

Emily at graduation.

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Published: 29 March 2018

Last Updated: 11 April 2018

JEFFERSON — The cemetery at St. Francis of Assisi Church might be brand new, but it already has three occupants and two more burials are expected soon.

“Everybody’s dying to get in,” quipped one parishioner before the dedication of the cemetery March 23.

Presiding at the dedication service was Bishop Peter Jugis, who led the group of parishioners in prayer and used holy water to bless the cemetery grounds that overlook the Blue Ridge Mountains.

The bishop commended the Jefferson parish for setting aside part of its 15-acre property for use as a cemetery, demonstrating its importance in the life of the parish.

He pointed out that the San Damiano crucifix in the center of the cemetery is a symbol of Christ’s victory over death and a sign of hope in eternal life for our loved ones. Death, he said, “is not the final word” for those who follow Christ.

The dedication service was the culmination of 18 months of effort to plan and build the cemetery, and it is the first major construction project since the church itself was built in 2014.

The quarter-acre cemetery has space for 100 full body plots and 50 cremains plots. It sits just downhill from the church – facing east – so that people can come from Mass and visit and pray for loved ones buried there, the pastor Father James Stuhrenberg said.

It is the only Catholic cemetery in Ashe County and the second such project for Father Stuhrenberg, who also led the effort to build a cemetery at St. Frances of Rome Mission in adjacent Alleghany County in 2015.

Pictured: Bishop Peter Jugis traveled to St. Francis of Assisi Church in Jefferson March 23 to dedicate a new cemetery. The only Catholic cemetery in Ashe County features 150 plots adjacent to the new church and its prayer garden. (Above) The focal point of the cemetery is a San Damiano crucifix set upon a stone pedestal. (Photos by Patricia L. Guilfoyle | Catholic News Herald)

“One of the corporal works of mercy is burying the dead,” he noted. “It is part of our mission of the Catholic Church and therefore our parish. It demonstrates our belief in the resurrection when we give care and honor to the bodies of our loved ones.”

The cemetery is purposefully located next to the parish’s prayer garden, he added, “so people can meditate and pray in the garden before and after visiting their loved ones in the cemetery.”

“The cemetery represents an enduring symbol both of our parish membership and a reminder of those we’ve shared time with on the journey of life,” added David Thomas, chairman of the parish’s building committee.

The $20,000 project was paid for by donations and many hours of volunteer labor, especially to clear the rocky ground. Parishioners gathered on Sundays after Mass to clear stones by hand, using them to line the drainage ditches that were necessary on the steeply-sloped property.

Gary Prange, cemetery committee chairman, thanked the cemetery committee members who designed the layout and developed the cemetery use policies; land surveyor Thomas Herman Co. PLLC, that surveyed the property, supervised the grading and marked the graves; and Bill Hart Construction, which graded and put in the gravel road.

“It’s great how the community has come together,” Prange said.
Prange said there’s more work to be done in the cemetery – additional landscaping, an improved entrance and walkway to connect to the prayer garden, and perhaps some more statues. It will take time and more donations, he said, but “it’s going to be beautiful.”
— Patricia L. Guilfoyle, editor

Published: 15 March 2018

Last Updated: 15 March 2018

Paul and Beth Hoeing, recipients of the Bishop William G. Curlin Partners in Hope Award, are pictured with Catholic Charities¹ Piedmont Triad Regional Director Becky DuBois. (Georgianna Penn, correspondent)

WINSTON-SALEM — Supporters and friends of Catholic Charities Diocese of Charlotte’s work in the Triad gathered for the 15th annual Partners In Hope event March 10 to celebrate the past year and encourage support to meet future needs.

The annual fundraiser offered an overview of Catholic Charities’ services and a glimpse into the lives of some of the clients who have been helped over the past year. Sponsors’ support covered the entire cost of the event, enabling Catholic Charities to raise more than $375,000 in donations that will go directly to funding the programs offered by Catholic Charities in the Triad.

Dr. Gerard A. Carter, executive director and CEO of Catholic Charities Diocese of Charlotte, began the evening with heartfelt thanks for the attendees’ generosity, telling people that he hoped they all understood that their gifts truly mean the world to those who come to Catholic Charities seeking help.

In his keynote address Kevin Mark Kampman, retired publisher of the Winston-Salem Journal and member of Holy Family Church in Clemmons, repeated Catholic Charities’ mission statement: “We are a Christian ministry of charity, service and justice dedicated to providing help to those in need, hope to those in despair, and inspiration for others to follow.”

“It’s really hard to image another organization walking the walk of their mission statement any better than Catholic Charities,” he said.

He said he and his wife Deborah began working with Catholic Charities of Birmingham, Ala., as foster parents more than 20 years ago.

“They taught us a lot more than we ever taught them,” he said, adding that Catholic Charities became the way his family put their faith in action.

Catholic Charities’ tenets of Christ-centered service and treating people with dignity, compassion and love, he said, combined with careful stewardship of its resources, enables the agency to help anyone in need.

Catholic Charities’ Triad office – which moved last year to a new location near St. Benedict the Moor Church in Winston-Salem – continues to have a powerful impact on the community, Kampman noted.

Among other measures, more than 4,000 people – half of whom were vulnerable children and the elderly – received free food and personal items last year, it was reported. Nearly 1,500 people facing a crisis received direct assistance, and 377 families received baby clothing and supplies through the Wee Care Shoppe.

“And the great thing is, we’re just getting started,” Kampman said.

A community garden will be planted this spring to provide much-needed fresh produce for food bank clients, and the Triad office is in the process of developing home gardening mentoring and support as well as a blood pressure education and monitoring program for the wider community.

Also during the event, Monsignor Anthony J. Marcaccio, pastor of St. Pius X in Greensboro, remembered the life of the late Bishop Emeritus William G. Curlin, noting his episcopal motto was “Sentire Cum Christo” (“To Think With Christ”).

If each person thought like Christ and felt with Christ, as Bishop Curlin did, this attitude would become second nature, Monsignor Marcaccio said.

“And then when that intuition is in you, it naturally spills over into action. It spills over into Catholic charity, the charity that we celebrate today,” he said.

Catholic Charities’ award named in honor of the late bishop – the Bishop William J. Curlin Partners in Hope Award – was then presented to Beth and Paul Hoeing by Father Brian J. Cook, pastor of St. Leo the Great Church in Winston-Salem.

The award is given in consideration of the work the Hoeings do for Catholic Charities but also, Father Cook said, in recognition of the charitable work they do for the entire region. Year in and year out, he said, the Hoeings serve as the hands and feet of Christ through their work with Room at the Inn, serving breakfast to the poor, bringing the Eucharist to the sick and homebound, and more.

The Hoeings thanked God for giving them the chance to share His love with others in concrete and practical ways – “to be His instrument, His hands and His heart to others so they can be encouraged, optimistic and respected as they experience trials and hardships in their life,” said Beth Hoeing. “I have witnessed so many examples of faith, courage, perseverance and patience from the many guests who come to Catholic Charities for services.”

Paul Hoeing expressed deep affection for the late Bishop Curlin, calling him a wonderful model for showing people what a life of service should be. He also remembered one of the late bishop’s simple prayers, a prayer that he and his wife strive to live each day: “Your will, O Lord. Nothing more, nothing less, nothing else.”
— Annette K. Tenny, correspondent

By the numbers

• 193,278 pounds of food and personal items were distributed to 4,395 people – 50% of whom were vulnerable children and the elderly
• 1,473 people received direct assistance when faced with an urgent crisis due to a job loss, health issue, death or problem that threatened safety
• 43 families with babies born to teen parents received support and parenting assistance. 100% of the high school seniors in the program graduated
• 668 direct counseling services helped to save marriages, strengthen families and transform lives by helping those coping with crisis, trauma and anxiety
• 377 households received assistance through the Wee Care Shoppe including: children’s clothing, diapers, baby wipes, formula, books and toys
• 60 direct supportive services were provided to families with teens in crisis as an effort to help them to cope and thrive
• 34 Forsyth Technical Community College students received supportive services through the Stay the Course program to maintain enrollment in college.
• 40 people received immigration and naturalization services
• 123 volunteers provided 10,217 hours of service to the Piedmont Triad Office, which would equal the work of 5.5 full-time people
• 30 people from a diversity of languages have been trained and qualified to work as professional interpreters through the Translation & Interpretation Enterprise (TIE) program